Men-Why do they cheat?
Hi all,
Time to update this blog... not that you all care an inch about it though!
"About 17 percent of divorces are caused by infidelity! That's an amazing number, considering there are so many other reasons for divorce ... About 70 percent of married men admitted to cheating on their wives! Another study found that 2/3 of women are not aware of their husband's affair" - Source Google.
Well, personally for me there are close to 90% of men cheat on their wives and girlfriends. And another 10% trying to convince all the women that not all the men cheat!
How about women? Do they cheat?
'The research, which looked at 100 heterosexual, married females between the ages of 35 and 45 and their online conversations with potential suitors on discreet dating service AshleyMadison.com, found that 67 percent of the women seeking an affair cited the desire for more passion."
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/knowmore-tv/why-happily-married-women-are-cheating_b_5787280.html
The question raised by a friend, why men cheat? Why men go for extra marital affairs or simply cheat. Well maybe once she sees the link above should know women are equally cheaters too especially at present stage of equal opportunities and career independence.
But fully agreed its come naturally for men,, maybe, just maybe they have been doing it longer than the women. hahahah.. Simply why men cheat! Because they can! Simple as that. Lest not insult the intelligent of women folks saying the women let the men cheat or the men cheat because of women!
Men are natural born liars! Simple as that! Not all of them of course!
Press here for the article
on some ridiculously ludicrous scientific but maybe useful articles on why men and women cheat.
Here are other interesting articles one
link 1
link 2
There are tonnes of articles on the topics online!
The author can relate to this article based on his own experience but different people (or shall i say cheaters) they have their stories and reasons behind every fuck up they do in their lives! Who cares? But lets put it this way, shit is a shit is a shit no matter how good the smell is!
Most of the times the reasons for cheating will be
- Not satisfied with the sex
- Married with the wrong person
- Personal adventures
- Bachelor parties before wedding
- Staying far and alone from the partner
- Got drunk
but the author also thinks is 'you control you destiny' NO one hold your legs and body and force you to go fuck around! Or hold your dick and ask someone to rape you! Or did they! When you do that dont blame it on anything else and take responsibility for that. Be a man and own up to it.Or be a brave woman an admit it if the circumstances arises that you get caught with your pants or panties down!
Nowadays the social media just increase the antenna and give us the opportunities that were never there before. All anyone needs to do is grab it, make some friends and everything else comes naturally with some planning. The author had all his 'swings' through social medias and its keep coming one after another.
Mostly men will start with the popular stories of his marriage is being in trouble they sex is not his expectations. The wife not treating them well, not staying together, (getting a divorce) blah blah blah. N some women fall for this last reasons a lot. N after few years of seeing each other they finally realized that the man is still with his wife! Then the stories of his children will come out! Staying there for the children. While some men can perfectly lead a double life as my friend said, it would be cheating themselves and maybe even the children as well.
Some men will use every single words they can get from a romantic novel and dictionary trying to woo the women to fall for them. They also will wait so many hours to pick you up, buy things, spend money, taking to places, celebrate things with you until get the women under the sack.
Of course the affairs become easier if both are in a marriage and no intentions to leave their partners and at anytime they can go their separate ways. Things can get complicated with lot of expectations that will probably never come true.
One thing the author thinks why they, the men cheat and keep cheating is because the women let them men control them. For them its ok if the men cheat and based on some religion believe that the men can have more than one wife. Listen to me ladies... if u let the men do this.. then make sure be prepared to face the to consequences.
It would be also the author's suggestion that if you guys choose to be in an affair, then better keep it to the sexual adventures only! Kissy kissy bang bang bye bye mam! Too much emotion will just give you heartache, headache as well as sleepless nights. Trust me, been there done that and still doing it. The emotional tortures are enormous that you will even think of take your own life.
Women... dont ever let any men tell you, you are anything lower than them! That would be my strong advise.
Time to update this blog... not that you all care an inch about it though!
"About 17 percent of divorces are caused by infidelity! That's an amazing number, considering there are so many other reasons for divorce ... About 70 percent of married men admitted to cheating on their wives! Another study found that 2/3 of women are not aware of their husband's affair" - Source Google.
Well, personally for me there are close to 90% of men cheat on their wives and girlfriends. And another 10% trying to convince all the women that not all the men cheat!
How about women? Do they cheat?
'The research, which looked at 100 heterosexual, married females between the ages of 35 and 45 and their online conversations with potential suitors on discreet dating service AshleyMadison.com, found that 67 percent of the women seeking an affair cited the desire for more passion."
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/knowmore-tv/why-happily-married-women-are-cheating_b_5787280.html
The question raised by a friend, why men cheat? Why men go for extra marital affairs or simply cheat. Well maybe once she sees the link above should know women are equally cheaters too especially at present stage of equal opportunities and career independence.
But fully agreed its come naturally for men,, maybe, just maybe they have been doing it longer than the women. hahahah.. Simply why men cheat! Because they can! Simple as that. Lest not insult the intelligent of women folks saying the women let the men cheat or the men cheat because of women!
Men are natural born liars! Simple as that! Not all of them of course!
Press here for the article
on some ridiculously ludicrous scientific but maybe useful articles on why men and women cheat.
Here are other interesting articles one
link 1
link 2
There are tonnes of articles on the topics online!
The author can relate to this article based on his own experience but different people (or shall i say cheaters) they have their stories and reasons behind every fuck up they do in their lives! Who cares? But lets put it this way, shit is a shit is a shit no matter how good the smell is!
Most of the times the reasons for cheating will be
- Not satisfied with the sex
- Married with the wrong person
- Personal adventures
- Bachelor parties before wedding
- Staying far and alone from the partner
- Got drunk
but the author also thinks is 'you control you destiny' NO one hold your legs and body and force you to go fuck around! Or hold your dick and ask someone to rape you! Or did they! When you do that dont blame it on anything else and take responsibility for that. Be a man and own up to it.Or be a brave woman an admit it if the circumstances arises that you get caught with your pants or panties down!
Nowadays the social media just increase the antenna and give us the opportunities that were never there before. All anyone needs to do is grab it, make some friends and everything else comes naturally with some planning. The author had all his 'swings' through social medias and its keep coming one after another.
Mostly men will start with the popular stories of his marriage is being in trouble they sex is not his expectations. The wife not treating them well, not staying together, (getting a divorce) blah blah blah. N some women fall for this last reasons a lot. N after few years of seeing each other they finally realized that the man is still with his wife! Then the stories of his children will come out! Staying there for the children. While some men can perfectly lead a double life as my friend said, it would be cheating themselves and maybe even the children as well.
Some men will use every single words they can get from a romantic novel and dictionary trying to woo the women to fall for them. They also will wait so many hours to pick you up, buy things, spend money, taking to places, celebrate things with you until get the women under the sack.
Of course the affairs become easier if both are in a marriage and no intentions to leave their partners and at anytime they can go their separate ways. Things can get complicated with lot of expectations that will probably never come true.
One thing the author thinks why they, the men cheat and keep cheating is because the women let them men control them. For them its ok if the men cheat and based on some religion believe that the men can have more than one wife. Listen to me ladies... if u let the men do this.. then make sure be prepared to face the to consequences.
It would be also the author's suggestion that if you guys choose to be in an affair, then better keep it to the sexual adventures only! Kissy kissy bang bang bye bye mam! Too much emotion will just give you heartache, headache as well as sleepless nights. Trust me, been there done that and still doing it. The emotional tortures are enormous that you will even think of take your own life.
Women... dont ever let any men tell you, you are anything lower than them! That would be my strong advise.
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